There are a lot of people these days that say that people who care how they look are shallow and think only about the outside beauty. They shame people who put effort into their looks, but is it really that bad? Is it bad that we care about our look and want to look good all the time?
The answer is no. How we look is important, no matter what other people are saying and no matter what point they try to prove. Like it or not, when we meet a person for the first time, we judge that person based on his or hers look, because we can’t say anything about their personality. When we meet a person for the first time, based on their look we can tell if they are tidy, perfectionists or do not pay attention to details a lot. No one likes to be around the person that smells bad, that has dirty hair and just looks messy; we all like to be around people that are healthy, beautiful and happy. Of course, if your look is the only thing that you care about and judge people just on their look, it is wrong too. There are a lot of other important things that you should base your opinion about the person on and it should not be the only thing.
However, do not try too hard to look too polished. These days it is popular to go for a look where your outfit would look effortless. This means that you should not try to match every single detail of your outfit and that you can match things that you normally would not match. Basically, you should look like you threw different pieces together without putting too much thought to it, though in reality you did. The same goes for your hairstyle. Sleek and polished hairstyles are not popular anymore, look at the celebrities – it looks like they do not put any effort to style their hair and they look absolutely amazing. If you want to curl your hair, brush them with a hairbrush so that they would look more like natural curls or just go for the beach waves that look absolutely natural.